He S Not In Love With Me Anymore

He said he needed to move out on his own and figure out what he should be doing with his life because perhaps he s not meant to be a husband and only a father.

He dint give me any reason as to why he didnt fall in love other than he saw me grow from going on trips and hikes with him but he did not grow although i thought after 8 years of him being single and then meeting me and going into a. Just because a guy is in a relationship with you doesn t mean he s in love with you. Some guys and girls too just like the security and convenience of having a steady significant other because they don t like being alone but in the long run if he s just using you to pass the time he s not worth your energy. He still tells me he loves me and only me but i feel like the only time he does is when we re having sex with that being said i truly feel used he doesnt seem happy with me anymore and sometimes i feel like he goes out of his way to do milisious things so he could hurt me and make me want to want out and end things so he doesnt have too.

He told me he is very sexually attracted to me and i am his dream guy and that he loves the fact i am up for anything a hike a trip chill at home etc. Hes never really around anymore and i miss him. This is a tough one to swallow. Another angle on this one is he might tell you he s just not ready for a relationship and that it s got nothing to do with you but he s just not the right guy for you.

Love but not in love.